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Friday, March 17, 2023

USGA Wants a More Competitive Game

 

Are New Golf Balls Necessary for the PGA?

I’m not much of a golfer but I happened to catch an interview with a couple of guys from the USGA (United States Golf Association) on golf ball rule changes. This is pretty wonky stuff but considering I work in the sporting goods world it piqued my interest. The main points are this: golfers are hitting the ball further than ever and risking the potential that the game will be less competitive with an (essentially) shortened playing field. Manufacturers of balls and clubs get more distance than ever with new technology. Not to mention, weight training for golfers and the ‘bigger, stronger, faster’ reality of modern sports.

Keeping the Future in Mind

Slight adjustments to the equipment keep the game competitive long term and prevent courses from having to build out longer playing fields. The first thing to note is this, it’s only intended for the pros and not the public course guys or amateurs. Even then, it’s not clear where and when the new (slower) ball could be used. The reps I saw on TV seemed to think the majors would use them. The Masters, the US Open and the Open Championship would likely introduce the new balls. Is this really necessary? A lot of it comes down to whether you believe professional golf would be better off in the next 20 years with a slower ball.

The logic is sound. If the bigger, stronger, faster trend continues, like it always has, the game is by definition less competitive. Only super long courses with hard, sloping greens will matter. Some of the players reacted sarcastically to the news. Justin Thomas went on an entertaining mini rant about the restrictions. I’d react that way too if I was a player. Don’t mess with my game man. But one thing he got wrong, other sports DO change the rules to make it more enjoyable for the fans, or more competitive for the players.

Other Sports Do the Same

In Basketball, the NBA famously introduced the 3 point line in 1979 to increase scoring and excitement. Before that (1954) the addition of a 24 second shot clock increased the pace of play. You can argue that these tweaks worked in reverse from what golf is trying to do. Instead of tamping down the level of play, the NBA increased it. But leagues make adjustments to the rules all the time. The idea that changing equipment to make it less “hot” is off limits, has never been true. At my store we sell a lot of baseballs and softballs for school teams. If you have a little league team you have to know which baseball is adopted by your particular organization.

Most leagues have a range of adopted baseballs that are very different from what college and pros use. Youth baseballs and softballs have softer centers, different seams and different leather. A major league baseball can’t have the same raised seams as a high school ball. A pitcher like Justin Verlander would put crazy break on a ball with raised seams. It makes sense to create a ball that’s tough to throw, but not so hard to throw that it favors the hitter. And it’s likely a standard that changes every few decades.

In 2012 the baseball bat standards changed for metal and composite, from a loose exit speed to a tight one. The new standard took the number of college home runs down 50% from 2011 to 2012. The manufacturers had to reduce the exit speed because it was a threat to pitchers. The bats had gotten so hot, pitchers couldn’t react quick enough when the ball was hit right back at them. The new standard was more for safety than performance and it’s still with us. Players hated the change then too, but eventually got used to it.

These governing bodies can be wrong about how a rule will affect the game going forward. But nearly every group introduces changes to game along the way.

Does the PGA even have to adopt the rules? It doesn’t look like it. Sam Burns was also asked his opinion on playing with a slower ball. He didn’t like it anymore than JT, but he also made an interesting point. He said that if 120 guys in a big tournament refuse to play with a new ball, what can they really do? I’m paraphrasing but I guess he’s right. This idea could be very unpopular at all levels. Then the USGA would have to scratch it. Especially with LIV golf entering the picture and taking some real talent away from the PGA, it’s unlikely they’ll want to risk loosing fans on a brand new scheme.

Golf is conservative in the traditional way, meaning loathe to change. I can hardly watch the pre and post Master’s tournament sentimental blather. It’s a long running tournament with a lot of tradition, get over it. It’s like eating a basket full of Cadbury Eggs, it’s glorious for10 minutes and then you get sick. Strangely enough, it was Augusta that eventually ditched the rule, forcing players to use club caddies. Tom Watson was one of the first to request a rule change, he wanted his own guy on the bag. The club relented. Even the most tradition bound institutions will change when necessary.

The question now, is it really necessary?

 

Thursday, March 9, 2023

Strength and Stamina: Learning to Slow Down

 



Run Slow to Run Fast

The Tulsa winter is about to break into full spring. This year hasn’t seen a lot of cold days. January and February were mild, despite being the traditional cold months. We certainly had a few cold Saturdays and will likely have at least one more. It’s early March so the potential for a freeze is still quite high. This has been a rainy week, just like the previous two. Early, consistent rain is a sign of spring. Just ask any baseball player how many rain out games they had in April.

I don’t mind getting a little wet on a jog but I avoid thunderstorms and heavy wind. Most of my daily miles are treadmill miles.

Anytime I write these running blogs I try to focus on what is different since my last post. Sometimes it’s tough to come up with new, interesting details. I guess it a lot of ways it all feels kind of the same from season to season. Summer is always tough because it’s hot, winter is easier on the lungs but harder to get outside. It’s not an exact replication from one year to the next, but it does rhyme. The biggest difference for me is my increased strength and stamina. Those might be just 2 sides of the same coin, but for me it’s the most noticeable improvement.

As a group we ran a brutal hill run a few weeks ago. I think it was 12 miles. South Tulsa is known for its hilly neighborhoods. One of the route makers took us right through an awful maze of ups and downs. I couldn’t have made that distance without walking some part of it 2 years ago. The slopes were long and occasionally steep. I noticed seasoned runners stop to walk the steeper parts of the terrain. I never had to stop but I slowed up significantly. This difficult terrain took up most of the run. Fortunately, it was a perfect 35 degrees with an overcast sky.

Even with the perfect weather the route would have beat me up years ago. My legs hadn’t developed enough muscle and my lungs weren’t as capable. It’s nice to have a real picture of what progress looks like. I can tell I’m a stronger runner than I’ve ever been. But without a visual test it’s just theory. It’s why running hills in training is crucial.

Another technique I’m learning is to run slow. I’m sure I’ve mentioned this a few times. Slow pacing in training is critical for fast pacing in marathons. At least that’s the mantra the group preaches. There are two retail stores in the area that host training groups. Runner’s World, my group, tells you to find your race pace and practice running 60 seconds slower than your ideal. Slow builds strength and stamina. The other group (Fleet Feet) is a lot more regimented from what I hear. They run in large, dedicated groups and keep a tight formation for the run. They probably have a different philosophy on training.

 I can’t say what’s better but I’ve chosen my group. Runner’s World lets you develop with the help of run leaders and experienced racers. It’s less hand holding than what I’ve seen from Fleet Feet but it’s a smaller organization too. The basic science behind going slow to go fast is that burning fat, or aerobic exercise, is more efficient for long runs. Anaerobic exercise burns up the glycogen stored in your muscles at faster paces. You have less reserve of glycogen than fat. Training slower, or at less intensity, increases stamina for marathons and even ultras. This article gives a more thorough breakdown than my clumsy paraphrasing. 

The difficulty is actually making yourself run slow. If you aren’t used to an easy jogging pace it takes effort. Group running is perfect for this when you have someone to talk to for miles. I’ve met some great people like this. And on long days we all have the time.

 

 

Saturday, March 4, 2023

Who Funds the Legacy Media?

 


Pushing Narratives: Legacy News Archetypes 

I’ve avoided writing a lot of news stories in the past 2 years. You’ll find plenty on my page, but fewer than before. The reason is simple. I don’t know what’s going on in the world and the events change daily. It’s easier to go around blissfully unaware of the surrounding chaos and focus on work and spiritual matters. I used to think people who didn’t follow the news were either too busy with life or just uninterested. I never considered that many didn’t want the trouble weighing heavily on their minds.

Most of the mainstream sources are pushing a narrative, reinforcing preexisting archetypes. Fear over peace, chemical over natural, death over life and sexual confusion over sexual purity.

I clicked past a news segment on PBS that profiled some transgender. I didn’t stick around to find out the details. the subtext was clear; this person is hero. Ten years ago no one was talking about transgender as a viable lifestyle. Today, this small minority of people are suddenly ubiquitous. Their opinions are highly sought after, demanded even. They appear out of nowhere hoisting signs and protesting this movie or that business. Countless news stories need a trans angle because apparently, it’s a hot topic. By why is it a hot topic? Because someone decided so. Someone influential (or a group of influentials) created this sermon and started preaching it.

As a regular guy I’m not privy to who the media takes its direction from. But once you start seeing the angles and story lines it’s tough to unsee it. Suddenly you can’t imagine why you didn’t see it before. It’s not bias exactly, it’s something closer to telling your employer’s version of events. At times it hovers just above the “technically” true line. Other times it’s true but not relevant. Occasionally it’s false, dangerously so.

The best way to frame it is to imagine what news from a strictly non-media company would sound like. I used to work for Target so I’ll pick on them. Target makes its money selling consumer goods and groceries. What’s important to Target is what gets on the channel. They’ll do stories on amazing TVs and other electronics, maybe a profile or two on the creator of some new tech only available in one brand of phone. Naturally you can find the phone at your nearest store.

There would be similar segments on grocery items. You could put together a piece on coffee from Brazil and sent a crew to interviewer the grower. I’m not talking about just dry commercials in between regular slots. I’m thinking more of a CBS soft feature segment. With enough funding you could tell interesting stories, even with the slant.

If Target was forced to do weather and traffic it would revolve around shopping hours. Is the weather going to keep me from getting to the store? Will it snow or sleet and can I get a bag of snow melt for the walkway?

Is Target giving us news? Absolutely. But it’s only important in so far as it revolves around our shopping. We wouldn’t blame Target for ignoring a story about a dam collapse in Sri Lanka or a parliamentary election in Australia. It’s not their purview. We know where Target’s money for news comes from. They have an interest in selling consumer goods and promoting their own products.

I think something close to this is how our legacy media works. They’ve become a channel of someone or something. Drug companies are one likely candidate. I watched a segment a few years ago that featured Chris Evert explaining how her sister’s death led Chris to get screened early for ovarian cancer. As sad as it was to hear the story, it worked seamlessly into the pro medicine/pro hospital push that CBS is known for. That was not an accident. I used to watch the Sunday morning show and I started noticing a bombardment of drug company ads. Drugs for erectile disfunction, heartburn, allergies, migraines, depression, anxiety, skin rashes and even restless legs. Restless leg syndrome affects a lot of people. Who knew?

I’m not against drugs, nor screenings, but after the heavy focus on hospitals and diseases it started to make sense. Drug companies represent a significant beneficiary of the information we’re being fed. Think about the archetype of the heroic, life saving screening device Chris Evert used. Fear of cancer was the enemy, medicine the savior. The commercials reinforce this too. It’s also interesting that none of the information was untrue, so far as I could tell. But it introduced in me, and certainly others, a fear of disease and a positive impression of screenings.  

But the news isn’t all about drugs, hospitals and death. There is an element of straight reporting and commentary that harks back to the traditional newsroom days. But my impression is subscribers alone won’t keep a media company afloat. The current model is dishonest. It pretends to give it to us straight, but donors affect the information more than we realizes. Our Target news company was a genuine product of specific corporate interest. How much of our legacy media is the same thing? I’d say most.

 Is the heavy focus on transgender surgery an extension of the heroic pharmacy/medicine archetype? Whether it’s that or a way to undermine traditional values, it’s a dangerous lie that’s hurting kids. When you normalize the crazy and the perverse, you’re pushing a lifestyle on the next generation. We need a media revolution in this country, out with the old media guard and their corrupt messaging.

Saturday, February 25, 2023

Psalm 127: Who is Building Your House?

 


The Master Builder  

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it; Unless the Lord guards the city, the watchman stays awake in vain.” (verse 1)

So many principles come to mind when I read this verse. Houses represent our lives and what we’re building inside them. Most people build their lives in traditional ways. Look for a job, get married, start a family and grow your wealth. Nothing is wrong with that. The pursuit of happiness might not be a spiritual principle but it’s a cultural norm. But our success in the important ways is tied directly to our trust in Him. No matter what the skill level of the builder, if you aren’t putting the Lord first your foundation is shaky.

Who is building your house?

If you’ve ever woken up and realized your efforts aren’t getting you anywhere, it’s likely you’re view of God is wrong. I had the realization that my image was way off, after reading the Bible with intention. Cosmic Santa was the phrase that stuck with me. I heard it described as a way that young people view God. “Cosmic” because He is out there in space somewhere and “Santa” because he give gifts. I’m embarrassed to admit that for years it was my view of God. He was a kindly, jovial old timer that makes sure your personal hopes and dreams come true. He’s there to affirm your desires and grant your wishes, just as long as you live right. Ugh. Where is the sacrifice in that, where is the accountability?

I was building my house with hopes and dreams, with a god that didn’t exist. The surest way to lose your home in a storm is with a soft foundation. I can remember being so upset with God when my conception of success didn’t pan out. But my foundation was soft thanks to my ill-conceived notion of God. He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him. I wasn’t seeking Him. I wanted a life coach to encourage my efforts and a generous gift giver to cover me when I went over budget.

How do you start?

We learn about the nature of God in the scriptures. Joseph (Genesis Chapters 39-44) was forced to grow up as a slave and a manager, then a prisoner. After his 13 years in captivity, he knew how to trust in the Lord for his provision. He didn’t have the luxury of seeing God as a cosmic Santa. His owed his life and existence to God. All of it was grueling and he probably thought about death constantly, especially after living a comfortable life as his father’s favorite son. God didn’t waste Joseph’s time, despite what it might have looked like in the moment. Every trial he encountered became the framework for future excellence. He learned the Egyptian language and culture at Potiphar’s home. It’s important if you’re going to make decisions for a country full of Egyptians.

He learned how to divide meals among the men properly and read men’s intentions in prison. Both critical skills when you need to save up for a famine and not get swindled by devious people. Joseph’s life proves that God is on His own schedule. He builds our house when we let Him, but not without our faith in His timing. Trusting God the homebuilder looks a lot like grinding away at low wage job or struggling to gain respectability. Faith grows in tough soil. It’s impossible to discover God’s will for our lives without developing a life dependent on Him.  

How do I think differently?

The biggest challenge for young people is taking all of their talent (much of it imagined) and handing it back to God. This doesn’t mean going into ministry (necessarily) or avoiding jobs with the potential to earn big money. It means seeking His will in all situations and letting the Holy Spirit put you where He will. Talented people can go very far on their own abilities but eventually even the best will stall out. We were never meant to do this alone. Trust in the Lord and His wisdom for your life.

What happens when you don’t trust God to build your home? Esau never had a relationship with the God of his father Isaac. He built his life on self reliance. In a moment of weakness he gave up his birthright because he held it cheaply. Whatever your view of God, cosmic Santa or insignificant deity, if you’re building your own house the foundation will be soft. The troubles will overwhelm you and you’ll blame the One who you never bothered to learn about, nor let Him build.

Conclusion

When the Lord builds the house, you get to hand over the fear and worry that comes with striving alone. “It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows; for so He gives His beloved sleep.” (verse 2) He wants to take our anxieties and give us rest. What could be better?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thursday, February 16, 2023

The Future of Work is De-specialization

 


Social Networks and Job Searching: A Part Time Writer's Lament

Maybe it’s just me, but the promise of technology and social networking has been a giant disappointment. All the writing positions that companies try to fill get hundreds of applications. I’ve stopped sending resumes out. For a while it felt like I was making progress. Applying and writing cover letters, I make sure to put my best writing samples in the document dump that everyone seems to need. How many employers actually look at them? How do they even have a system in place that checks off the necessary requirements? It’s probably like so much of the digital landscape, they run a bot to filter them out.

But at least running a bot is giving some attention to your efforts. I don’t blame companies for that, at least they’re trying. It’s the ones that don’t bother that frustrate me. I only apply for jobs where I think I’m qualified. Some of them may be a stretch, but I do think the vast number of total applications for every decent writing offering reflects a huge number of unqualified writers. I don’t have the experience to hold down a full time agency writer job. My experience is with blogs, some SEO and very general copywriting. I look for freelance stuff and not the “join” us type positions.

Another problem with the digital age is how easy it is to fire off a bullshit resume that checks all the boxes on the company’s asking list. The difference between a writer with 15 years of experience and one with 5 could be tiny or it could be massive. Someone who only writes part time can do that for 15 years and never experience the grind of a marketing company work week. But a 5 year writer who’s done nothing but write various types of copy is worth much more. Human resources might not be able to parse this out by looking at both resumes. The better ones ask for writing/grammar tests to prove you’re at least above a certain threshold.

While the tests can whittle down the pool of applicants somewhat, there are still what I’d call personal skills to work through. Some people are rigid and don’t take instruction well. They might be a good writer but they’re loathe to make corrections based on what the editor's direction. Others are just terrible time managers and miss deadlines constantly. None of this is particular to writing, but with so much of the work force operating remotely it’s another wrinkle. Distance is a problem when schedules are tight. I love to work at home too but I’m not convinced it’s the best solution for full time employees.

Like old fashioned networking, face to face is just better. This could be a function of my age but I just instinctively trust people I meet more than people I only have a social media connection to. It’s partly why I always check local company listings before blasting off a ‘likely to be ignored’ application.

For all of the amazing advances in high speed internet and ways to connect with people all over the world, the personal connection is still more effective. I remember one of the tips for getting a new job from the bestseller What Color is Your Parachute? was checking with your friends. The author made a point to tell everyone to check with friends and family because employers look there first when they need to hire. There is a temptation to think the internet has made this rule obsolete. Not so. I think it’s as true as it’s ever been. If you doubt it, put yourself in the position of a hiring manager. Would you rather hire a faceless avatar with a good resume, or the family member of a great current employee?

I’m not dumping on LinkedIn or Indeed or any of the socials filling up my inbox with job alerts. But tossing out resumes is just as cheap as listing them. The huge number of applicants is practically a guarantee that yours will get lost in the digital trash heap. What’s the solution then? We are entering a phase of economic life where we’ll need to be more reliant on our ability to make our own money. Large companies are getting squeezed in the recession and making big layoffs. Our Fed has overspent and eventually the dollar is going to collapse. I know I know, it’s doom and gloom again. But we can’t expect that all that fiscal insanity won’t snap back at some point.

For most of us, me included, we’ll nickel and dime our way getting work here and there as a supplement to a regular job. I’ll do that until I can sustain myself from freelance work and part time employment. But everyone should find a side hustle and build it up if possible.

That's what's on my mind lately.

Thursday, February 9, 2023

Smoking Pipe Diplomacy: Nord Stream 2 Solved?


Gas Pipelines: The New Cold War 



Seymore Hersh wrote a piece yesterday about the Nord Stream pipeline explosion last fall. If there was any doubt before about who did it, that doubt was laid to rest today. We did it. The US Navy used its specialized deep sea divers to rig C4 on a timer. I initially thought the Russians probably did it to punish the Germans for sending weapons and materiel to Ukraine. It wasn’t a strong enough argument. Nord Stream 2 was about to be a serious windfall for Russia, it hadn’t fully come on line yet. It’s not the only natural gas pipeline Moscow has running into Europe though. Most of them go through Ukraine.

 But Nord Stream (1 and 2) were an affront to NATO alliances from the beginning.

Why did the Biden administration waive sanctions on the NS2 if they thought it was a threat to the North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO)? What did the US get in return? I can’t imagine Biden waived sanctions to make nice. Obviously this is before the war in Ukraine, May 2021. It’s possible that blowing up the pipeline was always a possibility if the Russians didn’t behave. After the invasion of Ukraine on February 24, 2022, the plan to sabotage it went into effect. The details are all speculative, but Hersh tells a wonderful story.

 If this isn’t a movie in 2 years I’ll leave the country (not really). I can think of a few angles to write a screenplay from this.

But, it’s still an act of war against a sovereign country. Not only is it an act of war, it’s an act of aggression against a nuclear power. Moscow might not be the powerhouse it pretends to be, but it’s still a formidable enemy. They could drag China into the mix as well, we’d certainly have a World War 3 at that point. The US is likely betting that the Russians won’t be able to retaliate directly for the offense. But what if they unleash nukes in Ukraine and just go scorched earth on the place? It’s a real possibility.

There are too many unknowns and I’m getting a little nervous that we’re setting up for a protracted war. But not a direct head to head war, a proxy that goes on for years and eats up money and lives. The White House denies Mr. Hersh’s reporting by calling it “utterly false” and “complete fiction”. Russia knows it was the US anyway and that’s all that matters. How will they get back at us?

I’ve avoided writing too much about this whole Ukraine war. In part because I’ve had to rethink my positions on a whole range of issues. If Russia is so aggressive why is Germany allowing such an obvious takeover of their way of life? The Germans have allowed the greens to push a radical climate agenda on the whole country. It’s weakened their existence and forced them to seek out cheap gas from Gazprom (Russian national company). This doesn’t solve their supposed climate problem, it just shifts the blame for ‘destroying the planet’ to Russia.

It’s possible too that Germany doesn’t care much for the NATO alliance anymore. I can’t think of a better way to drive a wedge between us and the Russians than buying gas from Putin’s industries. It is frustrating to see your biggest (wealthiest) ally in Europe stop developing its own energy and turn to the very country that NATO was set up to contain. Europe and America needed a plan after World War II to keep the Russians in the East and the Germans weak. The NATO alliance holds for now, but it isn’t looking strong.

For a purely philosophical take, the America I thought I lived in doesn’t exist anymore. What vision of the world are we pushing anyway? The school curriculum talks about the evils of America’s founding. From Marxist notions of class struggle to critical race theory and victim studies, it’s a mess of lies designed to create friction. I guess I bought into the idea that America is a force for good in the world. At least, that was the prevailing view of Reagan and both Bushes, even Clinton. Maybe they didn’t really believe it but they stuck to the script, so to speak, and gave lip service to those ideals abroad. But if America as a country (and an ideal) is so rotten, why keep pushing such dangerous ideas on the rest of humanity.

Put another way, who wants the United States as a partner with our historic racism, sexism and homophobia? Just look at our awful past. Read this article about a kids show and recognize that it's a Disney program.

You can’t push an aggressive foreign policy whose military sabotages a sovereign nation’s pipeline while your schools teach America as the great evil. Music, movies and TV all traffic in it as well. Something has to give. Our belligerence on the international stage makes the point better than any left wing radical could. 

Sadly we’ve just the given the Russians a very public incentive to create more havoc.


Monday, February 6, 2023

Life and Legacy: Service for the King

 


Remembering Papa: Life and Legacy

The memorial service in Branson was a joy.

 It’s a funny phrase to say that about such a solemn occasion but there it is. This weekend an extended group of family gathered for a remembrance of Robert (Bob) Marsden our grandpa. Known affectionately as Papa, he lived to 90 years old and passed on a legacy of Christian service and eternal trust in God’s plan. The last part I don’t say lightly. His career as a preacher taught him the value of applying the scripture to daily life and watching God move. He wrote a book (When God Speaks, Listen!) a few years ago as a recap to his life, something for the family to gain an appreciation of his life.

He put his family first and listened to the voice of God for wisdom as a pastor, and for comfort when life didn’t make sense.

My memories of Papa usually involve him loading a U-Haul truck for another move, or standing behind the pulpit at church teaching from the New Testament. Him and my grandmother moved a lot, taking positions with various churches around the country. He did the marriage ceremony for a couple of my cousins as well as my brother. Other than the weddings I never saw a lot of his actual teaching. He had congregations in Ohio, New York, and Florida to name just a few states. From what others have told me, he was most comfortable behind the pulpit and studying the scriptures.

Never the warm fuzzy type, he was serious by default and always focused on the hard realities of any situation. Where my grandmother was warm and easy, he was serious and tough. But as a pastor he learned how to be gentle and helpful to his flock. He wasn’t without a sense of humor either. The first time I watched Tim Conway’s novocain bit from the Carol Burnett show was at his house. He loved Conway’s deadpan physical comedy. It’s ironic that he looked a little like him too.  

From his book, I got a sense of how difficult it was to be his family’s provider at the age of 10. His father’s passing forced a realignment of values, he suddenly became provider for his mother and sisters. Government help wasn’t consistent in the 1940s and people were too proud to take it in a lot of cases anyway. It might have been tough for a young boy to start working at such an early age, but it wasn’t unusual. Life took on a very serious tone during those years and he never got back the innocence of youth.

He famously hated board games. Not only did he hate board games, but he never really learned how to play most games. I’m sure it’s a result of being responsible for so much at such a formidable age. He wasn’t shy about sharing his opinions either. But he was an amazing resource for advice on relationships, politics and Christian living. In the years right after grandma passed away, he used to visit my mom for a few days in the summer.

She stayed in Broken Arrow in apartments that looked out over a pool. I spent a few days with him at the pool, he loved the heat and sun. In those few days he told me various stories about churches he pastored and cities he and my grandmother lived in. I stayed with him at his apartment in Branson one night. A few of us (including him) were traveling to Illinois the next day to celebrate my aunt’s birthday. He told me about his prayer list, a nightly ritual of names that he’d been compiling for years. It’s a great practice that I’ve used myself in certain seasons of life. We never know how much the prayer from another person is working on our behalf.

I think the word that best defines Papa is “Servant”. He gave his life to Christ early in his marriage and began a life of service in the pulpit. His daughters learned the importance of the Bible in family life and taught it to their children as well. Life was tough for most of his years, money was always tight and moving put an extra strain on the finances. But the most important value he taught was to turn to Jesus in times of trouble. It’s a process that’s learned through trying times and harsh circumstances. It tests our faith and gives us enough patience to weather the storms of life. It’s the most important skill that one person can give to another, and it’s rooted in prayer.

Thanks for being our example Papa, and thanks for the legacy.